Marriage

Sacrament of Matrimony

Beginning Your Married Life in Christ

Marriage is a lifelong covenant of love, blessed by God and witnessed by the Church community. If you're planning to marry at St. Philip Neri, we're here to help you prepare well for this important step.

Speak to the Priest

What's Needed

Six Months' Notice

Diocesan guidelines require at least six months' notice before the wedding date.

Marriage Preparation Course

Couples attend a diocesan marriage preparation course before the ceremony.

Legal Documentation

Baptism certificates, and where relevant a Certificate of No Impediment, are required.

Your Path to the Altar

Speak to the Priest
At least 6 months before
Contact the parish as soon as you're engaged to begin the process and check the date is available.
Complete the Paperwork
Early in the process
Gather baptism certificates and complete the pre-nuptial enquiry with the priest.
Marriage Preparation
A few months before
Attend the diocesan marriage preparation course together as a couple.
Banns of Marriage
3 weeks before
Your intention to marry is announced at Mass over three consecutive Sundays.
The Wedding
Your chosen date
You exchange vows and are joined in the Sacrament of Matrimony before God and your community.

Common Questions

Can we get married if one of us isn't Catholic?

Yes. A dispensation can be arranged for a mixed marriage between a Catholic and a baptised or non-baptised partner. Speak to the priest early to arrange this.

What if one of us was married before?

If a previous marriage ended, the priest will need to discuss the circumstances with you, as an annulment may be required before a Catholic wedding can take place.

Do we have to do the marriage preparation course?

Yes, it's a required part of preparing for the sacrament and is genuinely valuable for couples, covering communication, finances and faith together.

Can we choose our own readings and music?

Yes, within the structure of the Nuptial Mass. The priest will guide you on suitable readings and hymns during your preparation meetings.

Planning to Marry?

Contact the parish as early as possible, ideally at least six months before your planned date, so we can support you through every step.